Dr. Williams
Social Comparison
Why do we compare ourselves with others?
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We come to know ourselves by comparing ourselves to other people.
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We compare ourselves to others to learn about our feelings, traits, and
abilities.
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According to Leon Festingerās (1954) social comparison theory, we have
a need to evaluate our opinions and abilities, to figure out our strengths
and weaknesses, in order to have an accurate view of ourselves.
Why donāt we use objective criteria?
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We will use objective criteria, when available.
- How tall am I?; How much do I weigh?; How fast did I run?
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But, there are many things about ourselves that donāt have objective
criteria or measurements.
- How attractive am I? How good of a cello player am I? Do I weigh too
much? How empathic am I? How conservative are my political opinions? How
smart am I?
Two Important Questions
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When do we engage in social comparison?
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With whom do we choose to compare ourselves?
When do we engage in social comparison?
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We are more likely to engage in social comparison when
- there are no objective standard to measure our attitudes and skills
- we are uncertain about ourselves in a particular domain.
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Example:
- Suls & Fletcher (1983). Natural science publications authors thank
fewer people than do social sciences authors.
- Physicists & Chemists: 0.5; Psychologists: 1.2; Sociologists:
2.0. Why?
With whom do we socially compare?
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Festinger (1954) -- With others who are more similar to us on the
relevant dimension.
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Gilbert et al (1995). We initially compare ourselves to everyone.
- After quick assessment of how our performance compares to that of
othersā, we then decide how appropriate that comparison is
- Appropriate = similar on attribute or dimension
Other reasons for social comparison
- To feel better about ourselves
For these reasons, we sometimes make different sorts of comparisons
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Upward comparisons
- more likely to motivate us to achieve more
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Downward comparisons
- more likely to make us feel better about ourselves
- contrast principle, relative deprivation
Wheelerās work on event-contingent diaries of social comparisons
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Looks at social comparisons outside the laboratory, during everyday
life.
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Examines questions such as:
- How often do we make social comparisons?
- With whom do we make them?
- How do they make us feel?
Rochester Social Comparison Record
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Through what mode did you socially compare?
- social interaction, visual, telephone, brief contact, daythought
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On what dimension did you socially compare?
- academic matter, personality, abilities, life style, social skills,
physical appearance, wealth
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With whom did you compare?
- Close friend, ordinary friend, acquaintance, stranger, imaginary
person, family member, oneself, famous person.
Rochester Social Comparison Record
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Similarity (Comparison dimension)
- inferior <-> similar <-> superior
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Feeling?
- Just before comparison
- Just after comparison
- happy <-> depressed
- discouraged <-> encouraged
Social comparison applied to groups
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Within groups, we compare ourselves to others to establish status within
groups
- This explains why status hierarchies emerge so readily in groups
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Not only do we compare ourselves to others, but we compare our groups to
other groups
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Also make upward and downward group social comparisons
Summary
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We make social comparisons when we are:
- uncertain about our opinions and abilities
- we desire validation (information-seeking)
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We choose to compare with:
- others similar to us on dimension
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But, we also socially compare:
- to make ourselves feel better
- in which case, we choose to compare downward
- to motivate us
- in which case, we engage in upward comparisons